Selling out to my dream

Well its a new year and it comes with a world of new possibilities...i guess that we all make resolutions and hope that we will keep them, i am learning that hoping such things is not enough. The most important words in my life will be JUST DO IT...i am stealing this from Nike as i have realised that the most impotant thing that anyone can do for themselves is to take ACTION...taking action is the only thing that does actually matter, how many dreams do i have? pleanty and how am i going to achive any of them? by simply taking action.

It doesnt have to be big things, think about it this way, if i do just one thing a day that will bring me closer to my dream then by the end of the year i will have done 365 things that will be putting my dreams within my grasp.

From now on i will not be lazy, (how can i be lazy about things that will be beneficial for me?)...i am still debating whether to go to gym in the mornings or afternoons but i am really leaning towards the mornings as this will mean that it is over and done with by the time that everyone wakes up i will already have one over them, i can then get to work at about 8 and work till about 4...this will allow me to free up my late afternoons and early evenings. On Mondays i can spend time with my girlfriend doing anything that she wants to do...it doesnt matter as long as i am with her, Tuesdays and Thursdays i will go to Rugby Practice, Wednesdays i get to spend more time with the one that i love...i really enjoy going to movies and we can do that, Fridays can be used as rest days as there will be games on Saturdays and Sundays we will go to church...

My main goal this year is to be a WHOLE person...i want to enjoy this year to the fullest...i wanna learn and experience new things...

The only way i will achieve my dreams is to sell out to them, it has to be the last thing i think about before i fall asleep and the first thing i think about when i wake up, time is such a funny thing...i only took action yesterday and i will take action everyday, here is an account of bad baheviours that are holding me back...

Jan 1: I wont do anything today because it is a holiday and i just drank all day

Jan 2: I just want to relax and i watched tv all day

Jan 3: I havent seen my freinds "ALL" year maybe i need to spend some time with them and AGAIN i drank my productive time away...

Jan 4: Wake up and go to work (is it not funny that i will work at making someone else rich but i dont prioritise that in my life?) then i was lazy to go to gym...a win for me yesterday was that i drew up a list that has 200 names, i ironed my shirt last night, which made it possible for me to get ready for work in 30 minutes, and i made lunch for today wich means that i dont have to spend money on useless things like R15 sandwiches...

Today is my day...JUST DO IT!!!

coleoptera through the ages

success

i am learning everyday that being successful is not doing new and wonderful and exciting things everyday, what the most successful people in the world do is that they set a goal (and never change it) then they find and way in which they are going to achieve this goal, once they have found that...they just do that thing everyday this gradually leads them to attaining their dreams...the only change that ever happens is when they re- evaluate their technique to get better results... i must stick with my methods.

yesterday was tough, i gymmed legs and then went spinning for an hour...WOW!!!

How to get and keep a girl

On my never ever ending quest to know things i was reading a Glamour magazine, which had a comparison between John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhall and ten girls were asked to choose which one they would go for and a whopping 8 out of the 10 went for John Mayer...WOW (this he must be the biggest fag i can think of...)

The question on my mind was why? and the answer is pretty simple really this is how i see it...what attracts a woman into a relationship is never what will keep her in that relationship, you see women always want the bad boy and they think that they can change him...Why did they not want Jake, the majority of them said that it was because he is a good boy and good boys are boring and no fun at all...you see guys a woman wants to be swept off her feet and live in the moment and be carried away in a blizzard of lust and love.

The problem with this is that it doesnt sustain a relationship, ask any girl what kind of husband she wants and i guarantee that it will almost be the exact opposite of what has been described above, she wants the sweet guy, who will love her children and be home immediately after work and basically be the Jake Gyllenhall...

So here is how any guy can use this to his advantage, to get the girl you have to be the bad ass, basically be a dick, dont care sort of guy...i know a lot of people are disagreeing with me, but how many times does the sweet chap lose out on getting the girl because she will choose the guy that is no good for her, dont fool yourself and say rubish like "I'll just be myself and i will get her" we all know that hasnt worked for you in the past 24 years...

After you have being the prick and gotten the girl, then you cant slowly go back to being your little cute useless self, this has two benefits, you dont have to walk around pretending to be something that you are not and she will actually think that she managed to changed you...

on my next blog, i will talk about how to be an douchebag...

My Dream

Its funny how we look at nice cars and nice houses and think or even better tell someone, we see Lambo's and things all the time, what do these people do that enables them to afford such cars?

well im tired of wondering and i am going to embark on a journey to find out.

my goal is now to become a millionaire, upon closer inspection of the things that are happening, it is becoming painstakingly clear that having money will help solve a lot of things, you see i am realising more and more everyday that having money equals having options in this life, together with making a lot of money i want to be super healthy as it wont help to be rich and not have the physical ability to enjoy the money...and i want to get married very soon, because there is no point in having all the riches and no-one to share it with...i mean imagine being on holiday in spain or the caribbean or anywhere else for that matter and the other half of WE ARE AWESOME is not there...i wanna be a family man and have lots of kids, money will allow me to be able to give them the best that life has to offer....

so to kick off my game plan i will divide my day up like this:

sleep 6 hours
work 12 hours
gym 2 hours
spend time with investing in my relationship 4 hours...

this should be a good start, i am ultimately working to get to a point where i work max 6 hours a week, about an hour a day and spend all my time travelling the world with my loved one...when we are tired we will settle down in a big ass house and just breed...and love each other for the rest of our lives.

still...the most beautiful girl in the world

what do men want?

I was having a talk with my girlfriend yesterday and I was asking her how her friends are doing…the conversation goy interesting when I realised that a lot of them don’t have boyfriends and are looking, a few questions have been on my mind since then:

What does a guy look for in a relationship?
What does a woman have to do to make sure that the guy calls her the next day?
Why is it that we treat the girls that like us and are available like crap and chase after the ones that treat us like crap?

In my thinking, I can summaries all this into one word…AVAILABILITY.

It makes sense because as men we a programmed to be hunters and we are always up for a challenge; this permeates into every single area of a man’s life. Look at sport for example, it’s all about challenge, in fact sport is based on war (get into the enemies territory and conquer, by scoring a goal or something.),

Now I will attempt to answer my questions:

What does a guy look for in a relationship?

We look for challenge, the only way for a man to be interested in a woman is for her not to be easily available to him, and we all know the story of the girl who is one of the boys. She becomes that because she is always around and eventually we get tired of treating her like a girl if she is doing everything that a boy does…then she becomes one of us.

What does a woman have to do to make sure that the guy calls her the next day?

The easiest way for this to happen is that you don’t give and reveal everything about yourself immediately, make him work for everything…(work on the 3:1 ratio, I’ll explain this in later blogs.)

Why is it that we treat the girls that like us and are available like crap and chase after the ones that treat us like crap?

It’s easy, it’s because we can’t “have” them. If a girl really likes a guy and comes onto him, chances are he will run the other direction very quickly. Always remember this a woman chooses a man, BUT the man must show that he is worthy of being chosen (i.e. he must best the best option in ALL departments, whatever you criteria are.).