On my never ever ending quest to know things i was reading a Glamour magazine, which had a comparison between John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhall and ten girls were asked to choose which one they would go for and a whopping 8 out of the 10 went for John Mayer...WOW (this he must be the biggest fag i can think of...)
The question on my mind was why? and the answer is pretty simple really this is how i see it...what attracts a woman into a relationship is never what will keep her in that relationship, you see women always want the bad boy and they think that they can change him...Why did they not want Jake, the majority of them said that it was because he is a good boy and good boys are boring and no fun at all...you see guys a woman wants to be swept off her feet and live in the moment and be carried away in a blizzard of lust and love.
The problem with this is that it doesnt sustain a relationship, ask any girl what kind of husband she wants and i guarantee that it will almost be the exact opposite of what has been described above, she wants the sweet guy, who will love her children and be home immediately after work and basically be the Jake Gyllenhall...
So here is how any guy can use this to his advantage, to get the girl you have to be the bad ass, basically be a dick, dont care sort of guy...i know a lot of people are disagreeing with me, but how many times does the sweet chap lose out on getting the girl because she will choose the guy that is no good for her, dont fool yourself and say rubish like "I'll just be myself and i will get her" we all know that hasnt worked for you in the past 24 years...
After you have being the prick and gotten the girl, then you cant slowly go back to being your little cute useless self, this has two benefits, you dont have to walk around pretending to be something that you are not and she will actually think that she managed to changed you...
on my next blog, i will talk about how to be an douchebag...
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